2007/06/26

The Only Size that Matters

Is apparently your own, and even then, it may be the size in your brain that matters, according to a recent survey of research on men and women’s attitudes about penis size. The survey was undertaken as part of a new proposed diagnostic term, small penis syndrome.

According to authors Wylie and Eardley, who published their proposal in the urology journal BJU International, small penis syndrome:

is defined as an anxiety about the genitals being observed, directly or indirectly (when clothed) because of concern that the flaccid penis length and/or girth is less than the normal for an adult male, despite evidence from a clinical examination to counter this concern.

In an effort to outline the concept of small penis syndrome, the authors reviewed the results of twelve separate studies on penis size, and several studies on the effectiveness of penile lengthening surgery (which doesn’t fair well). Among the findings:

  • They found an average penis size to be 3.5 to 3.9 inches for flaccid length, 5.5 to 6.3 inches for erect length, and 4.7 to 5.1 inches for the erect girth. These averages are slightly higher than earlier summaries, pointing once again to the difficulty in agreeing on average penis size.
  • As defined by the authors, small penis syndrome is much more common in men with normal sized penises than those with a small micropenis with a flaccid length of less than 2.7 inches.
  • An internet-based survey of over 50,000 heterosexual men and women found that while 85% of women were satisfied with their partner's penis size only 55% of men were satisfied.
  • In the same study 66% of men said their penis was average sized, 22% said it was large and 12% said small.
  • One study found that 63% of men complaining of small penises said their anxieties started with childhood comparisons and 37% blamed erotic images viewed in their teenage years.

The skeptic in me questions the motivation and utility of this diagnosis. If we call it like it is, men are consistently given the message that their value lies solely in their penis. So it’s hardly surprising that men want to increase the size of our one important asset. And a new “diagnosis” isn’t likely to help men think outside the confines of their cylindrical shaped box.

On the other hand, this paper is refreshing in its focus on psychological and social factors and treatments, and it offers a helpful review for anyone who works with men on what exactly is statistically average out there.

Small Penis Syndrome - The Only Size that Matters

Is apparently your own, and even then, it may be the size in your brain that matters, according to a recent survey of research on men and women’s attitudes about penis size. The survey was undertaken as part of a new proposed diagnostic term, small penis syndrome.

According to authors, who published their proposal in the urology journal BJU International, small penis syndrome:

is defined as an anxiety about the genitals being observed, directly or indirectly (when clothed) because of concern that the flaccid penis length and/or girth is less than the normal for an adult male, despite evidence from a clinical examination to counter this concern.

In an effort to outline the concept of small penis syndrome, the authors reviewed the results of twelve separate studies on penis size, and several studies on the effectiveness of penile lengthening surgery (which doesn’t fair well). Among the findings:

  • They found an average penis size to be 3.5 to 3.9 inches for flaccid length, 5.5 to 6.3 inches for erect length, and 4.7 to 5.1 inches for the erect girth. These averages are slightly higher than earlier summaries, pointing once again to the difficulty in agreeing on average penis size.
  • As defined by the authors, small penis syndrome is much more common in men with normal sized penises than those with a small micropenis with a flaccid length of less than 2.7 inches.
  • An internet-based survey of over 50,000 heterosexual men and women found that while 85% of women were satisfied with their partner's penis size only 55% of men were satisfied.
  • In the same study 66% of men said their penis was average sized, 22% said it was large and 12% said small.
  • One study found that 63% of men complaining of small penises said their anxieties started with childhood comparisons and 37% blamed erotic images viewed in their teenage years.

The skeptic in me questions the motivation and utility of this diagnosis. If we call it like it is, men are consistently given the message that their value lies solely in their penis. So it’s hardly surprising that men want to increase the size of our one important asset. And a new “diagnosis” isn’t likely to help men think outside the confines of their cylindrical shaped box.

On the other hand, this paper is refreshing in its focus on psychological and social factors and treatments, and it offers a helpful review for anyone who works with men on what exactly is statistically average out there.

Getting Laid Not Depressing


One of the big ticket lies that government sponsored abstinence-only sex education is required to sell us is the idea that having sex before you are married will lead to mental health problems, specifically depression.

And while its certainly true that sex can make life more complicated, and depending on the sex, more depressing, it can also make life more fun, beautiful, interesting and engaging. And I think most sexual health educators would agree that there's a balance, and that the benefits usually outweigh the drawbacks in the final tally.

So it was nice to read about a recent study out of the University of Minnesota that examined depression following first sexual intercourse. From the university's release:

Using data from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, Ann Meier, University of Minnesota assistant professor of sociology, studied 8,563 seventh- through 12th-graders over an 18-month period, measuring for depression and low self-esteem. Meier compared the mental health of teens who didn't have sex to teens who were virgins at the beginning of the study, but who lost their virginity during the 18-month period.

She found that while the majority of teens did not experience depression as a result of first-time sex, some did -- those being the youngest teens (girls who had sex before age 15 and boys who had sex before 14) and whose relationship was not emotionally close and dissolved after sex. Girls in this group were particularly vulnerable to depression.

While these results aren't like to surprise many (except those who actually believe everything they hear in abstinence-only class) the study remains important both for the empirical evidence it brings to a topic lacking in empirical evidence, and for the way it complicates the topic by describing the role of sex in the lives of teens as it actually exists, in all its confusing glory.

Aneros Prostate Massager Review


The Bottom Line

Good quality, well designed toys for men are rare in the sex toy industry. Aneros stands out as something that is simple, but works incredibly well.

Pros
  • Design is specifically for prostate stimulation
  • Material is smooth and seamless
  • Easy to Clean
  • Several styles to suit different tastes
Cons
  • Stimulation can be too intense for some
  • Men with enlarged prostates will likely find this product uncomfortable and/or painful
  • Product is relatively expensive.

Description

  • Made of a firm hard plastic material
  • Smooth and seamless, and designed specifically for prostate stimulation
  • The grooves are made to press against the prostate, no other toy has this same precise design
  • The curled handle can also stimulate the perineum
  • The handle also allows for subtle changes in pressure and motion against the prostate
  • Available in five styles

Guide Review - Aneros Prostate Massager

When I first came across the Aneros I felt that it was a bit of a scam. Essentially a small piece of plastic with a very high price tag. But after checking it out, and speaking to hundreds of guys who have used it I’m singing its praises.

The Aneros isn’t for everyone, it’s designed specifically for prostate stimulation, and the stimulation it provides is intense. For a lot of people who like it they may still not use it all the time (think of it as a special occasion sex toy). But what makes it worth the money is that the design delivers on the promise. It makes prostate stimulation very easy, and it fits like a glove…well you know what I mean.

And the design doesn’t end with the insertable part of the toy. I love the handle. For one thing, it makes it very easy to use the toy once inserted. While the Aneros site talks about not holding the handle at all, I love the subtle movements it allows. The handle also can provide stimulation of the perineum. The stimulation is limited by the thinness of the handle itself, but it’s clear that the designers thought of this and set out to make it happen.

While I’m still hesitant to recommend it for everyone because the price is out of reach for some people, if you’re interested in prostate stimulation, and the Aneros is in your budget, I would highly recommend it.

Sex Toys that Changed the World

While these sex toys may not have actually changed the world, they did change the sex toy world, and the sexual world view of many of us who are fans of these groundbreaking products. Each of these sex toys offered genuine innovation, something new, and in doing so they made us do something new with ourselves.

Hitachi Magic Wand

As the guillotine was the French Revolution and the couch to psychoanalysis, so the Hitachi Magic Wand is to the sex positive women's movement and more broadly the pro-masturbation movement. Thanks in large part to women like Betty Dodson and to its simple and functional design, the Hitachi Magic Wand remains a bestseller at most high end sex shops and by far the fastest and easiest way to have an orgasm.

Rabbit Pearl

First designed in Japan, this toy and its comrades offered a revolutionary design element, a clitoral stimulator that offered simultaneous vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation. Through its starring role in a Sex and the City episode, the Rabbit Pearl vibrator has arguably did more for bringing sex toys out of the closet than anything else in the vibrators long and storied history.

Coil Electric Massager

Enter any respectable sex shop or "small appliance" section of your local department store, and you'll find a "coil" electric vibrator that doesn't look much different from the models designed over eighty years ago. This vibrator has no moving parts resulting in a virtually silent but powerful vibration. Dubbed "the parent vibrator" coil massagers allow almost anyone needing privacy a powerful buzz without the questioning knocks on the bedroom door "what's that humming?"

Fleshlight

While sex toys were traditionally marketed to men, the intended end user was usually women, and toys made for men were largely poorly designed and of poor quality. The Fleshlight raised the bar exponentially with a revolutionary material, a practical design, and a marketing campaign that glorified male sexual pleasure without making fun of men or women.

Fukuoku

The Fukuoku revolutionized both vibrator design and sex toy marketing. A lightweight vibrator that fits on the finger and allows for simultaneous skin to skin touch and vibration, the Fukuoku may be the first example of the power of television, women's magazines, and the Internet in grassroots sex toy marketing.

Silicone Dildos

The introduction of silicone dildos represented the first time sex toy customers were put first in the minds of manufacturers. The material was ideal for its intended purpose, easy to clean, warms to the touch, and able to be sculpted and colored in a wide range of options. Scorpio Products" Gosnell Duncan was the first to make these beloved toys available, and he inspiration has been both duplicated and expanded on.

Cyberskin

Cyberskin, a material first created by Topco Sales (and now often imitated) represented another genuine revolution in material, offering a "dual density" material that's firm at the core and soft on the outside, offering a surprisingly realistic feel. The revolution had its limits as the material remains easy to break and difficult to clean, but it was also the first packaging to cite NASA research.

Eros Silicone Personal Lubricant

Eros was the first widely available silicone-based lubricant. Offering a fundamentally different lubrication "feel", silicone lubricant doesn't dry up, is condom compatible, and can be less likely to cause irritation or reaction, all offering a true innovation from traditional water based lubricants. The success of the Eros model can be found in the dozens of companies now manufacturing silicone based lubricants.

The Cone

Truly innovative sex toy design, The Cone vibrator's counter-intuitive shape invites you to re-think how you want to use a vibrator. The Cone is another example of merging good design (high quality silicone, powerful motor) and smart marketing, which has allowed the product to quickly make its way into the shopping carts and bedrooms of sex toy fans around the globe.

Aneros anyone?

I have been reading about the Aneros, the male prostate stimulator. It is suppose to give males the orgasm of a lifetime. Works on it's on hands free. In case you don't know, this device goes in "the exit hole". which is why I think more males dismiss the device and regard it as gay. Well, I am very intrigued by the Aneros although I have never had anything go in that hole and never wanted anything to go in. Me question is, has anyone here had any experience with it or know anyone that has?

2007/06/22

India New Condom with Vibrating Ring


A new condom with a vibrating ring has sparked a furore in a central Indian state, where ruling Hindu nationalists say it is a sex toy and should be banned.

The government of Madhya Pradesh, which earlier this year banned sex education in schools, said the 'Crezendo' condom was not an aid to family planning and AIDS prevention, adding its use could be "against Indian culture".

"Condoms, when used for pleasure with a device like a vibrator, become a sex toy, and sex toys are banned in India," asserted Kailash Vijayvargiya, public works minister in the state, ruled by the Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP).

"We will certainly ban the product if it is found to be violative of the law or even if its use is found to be against Indian culture," he said, adding that the government should "promote family planning and not sex toys".

‘Yoga, not sex toys’

"It should encourage yoga that helps conserve and increase energy," he says.

"I am discussing it with the Chief Minister Shivraj Singh Chouhan."

Crezendo condoms, launched on the Indian market about six months ago, include a tiny battery-powered vibrator attached to a ring which is designed to sit at the base of the condom.

Mukesh Gupta, the distributor of the product in the state, said Crezendos simply offered a novel way of encouraging safe sex in India — which with its population of 1.1 billion has the largest number of HIV-AIDS cases worldwide.

"It is not a sex toy but simply a pleasure enhancer that is in great demand by the people," he says.

2007/06/19

Sex toys that show your team spirit

Of course, the world’s corporations wanted a piece of the most popular sporting event on the planet, the World Cup of soccer, now being contested in Germany. Big name sponsors like Philips, MasterCard and Budweiser are there and you can buy all kinds of licensed products like colorful hats and scarves — the Euro-version of our big foam “Number 1” hand.

One endorsement deal that wasn't, however, made news a few weeks ago. It seems the German sex shop chain, Beate Uhse came out with Ollie K and Michael B vibrators and a David B dildo. To anyone who knows soccer, it appeared as if stars Oliver Khan, Michael Ballack and David Beckham had lent their names to a line of sex toys.

They hadn’t. After a minor blitz of publicity and a threat of a lawsuit, Beate Uhse dropped the names.

But fear not! The World Cup has still generated a new phenomenon in sports — one we’ll probably see linked to every major international event from now on — the sex product tie-in. And why not? If Viagra can sponsor a NASCAR team, why can’t, say, Manchester United sign off on love balls?

The love balls, used for vaginal stimulation, are out there, shaped like little soccer balls and available from a variety of European and Latin American sex shops. You can buy them for 60 reals in Brazil, and about 5 euros in Italy, Holland, the UK and Germany.

Never want to be too far away from soccer strategy, no matter what else you may be doing? How about the Dolly Dolphin Football edition vibrator selling from at least one German sex shop for 49.80 euros. The Xs and Os and lines of player movements are inscribed along the shaft so you can really, um, internalize the game.

Dream teams
Looking for great sports movies like “Knute Rockne, All American,” or “Pride of the Yankees?” That’s covered, too, with World Cup porn DVDs like “Shoot for the Goal” available from a French shop (with a promise of Un match hyper hard dans un monde sportif corrompu et perverti!), and “Dream Team Holland!” Judging from the cover box — always the most reliable way to know what’s inside — there are women, and there are soccer balls, and there are soccer jerseys that aren’t worn much. Bound to be a classic.

By the way, in case you’re not a fan of the Dutch, you can also choose from Dream Team Italia, Dream Team Deutschland and Dream Team Espana. Isn’t it great how sports brings people together?


The Women's Football Survival Kit contains a TV remote control jammer.

Of course, it can also drive people apart, especially husbands and wives and boyfriends and girlfriends. Actually, I know a few female soccer fans who are more rabid than most guys, but men do get carried away sometimes and neglect the women in their lives, especially during the World Cup, which has already run for two weeks and will run for a little over two weeks more.

So British sex shop Love Honey is offering the Women’s Football Survival Kit for L8.99. It contains red and yellow cards labeled with male sins, a whistle and a TV remote control jammer, which, if it actually works, may well be grounds for divorce.

Better, I think, to relieve your frustrations with Love Honey’s World Cup Victory Vibe, a small bullet vibrator decorated with the red English Cross of St. George. It’s L9.99. The store also sells Durex England Supporter World Cup Condoms which are, well, just a variety of condoms, but hey, labeling is everything.


2007/06/18

Sex toys are 'Dangerous'

Sex toys are becoming increasingly popular among the younger generation of this world. It is normal for a sex toy to be used in masturbation and in some forms of pornography.


No one would have guessed that a simple vibrator, described as an adult novelty device, could cause so much fear and inconvenience at an airport.

It was only last Monday that a vibrator was found left in a bin at the Mackay Airport in Queensland, Australia. Due to the "humming" of the device, officials at the airport were led to believe that it was a bomb and so took the necessary measures to protect the premises as well as the many commuters.

The eruption that occurred was not the "eruption" that the device was meant for but this resulted in the shut down of the airport for almost an hour. Everyone was evacuated from the airport, and several flights departing and arriving the airport were delayed.

The police were just about to call in the bomb expert, when an unidentified passenger recognised the contents of the package. If this individual did not step forward, the schedule of the third largest airport in Australia would have been disrupted even further bringing the airport to an unwanted climax.

Australia has implemented heightened security measures since the September 11 attack on the United States. The fear of them being attacked caused them to believe that this vibrator was more than it actually was. A simple sex toy such as this has implemented fear in thousands of people present at this airport.

How about some sex toys from Jamaica?

MOST JAMAICANS I know, raise their eye brows whenever the term 'sex toys' is mentioned. Many conjure up sleazy sex joints where dirty, old, sex-starved old men (and young men) go to masturbate in booths that show porn clips.

Others feel that sex toys are for 'maama men' who need to satisfy their women but are sexually deficient and need sex aids to help them out. The association of porn magazines and sex toys (such as artificial vaginas or full-size dolls for lonely men to take home) can be an obnoxious thought to the religiously conservative. Some of the negative reactions to sex toys are also results of the cultural pressure for men to be sexually adept. And, on top of it all, the sale of such items in Jamaica continues to be prohibited by law.

NON-DEMAND SEX

One of the solutions to much of the sexual dysfunction among Jamaicans is deflating the cultural pressure to be sexual heroes. Ignoring the sexual superman myth would reduce the tendency toward sex becoming a stage performance. Sex was created for lovers and love, the active ingredient, is patient and kind.

If the sex act becomes something that gives non-demand sexual pleasure without psychological pressure or guilt and a form of emotional closeness between two adult persons then adding a sex toy to the mix is less intrusive. And such non-demand sexual activity may not require penile penetration at all. To begin to appreciate the purpose of some sex toys is to be open to other forms of sexual gratification as complementary to what you do now. A sex toy such as a vibrator can spice up an otherwise so-so sex life for those who have been in committed relationships for more than five years.

So what are sex toys? A sex toy is any object or mechanical device that is made primarily to facilitate human sexual pleasure. The term does not include contraceptives, condoms or pornography.

A PLUG FOR VIBRATORS

There are many types of sex toys such as dildos (penis-like objects), vibrators, sexual lubricants, rings, and the list goes on. But the most commonly-useful devise is the vibrator. A vibrator is a battery or electrical-powered device that comes in different shapes and sizes; it vibrates with much more intensity than a hand, penis or mouth. Since most women reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than thrusting alone, the shape of a vibrator is not as important to women as the erogenous zone it hits. The devise is very useful for women who have difficulty reaching orgasm and for men who want to explore their erogenous zones. Here are some benefits of a good vibrator:

Vibrators can help you learn more about your body and increase your ability to reach orgasms much more easily.

Vibrators are a good way to start communicating with your partner in the bedroom.

Vibrators enhance love making (but they do not replace it).

Vibrators can do things that people cannot do - they can vibrate!

Vibrators are ideal sex toys for safer sex.

Since we all feel very strongly about what we do behind closed doors, introducing an unfamiliar, foreign object such as a vibrator may seem intimidating. You may want instead to introduce more familiar things such as grapes, jellies, honey or wine during the sexual encounter.

Make this year a sexually fulfilling one by stretching your creativity in the bedroom and finding new ways to make your love making more adventurous.

2007/06/12

Anna Nicole Smith Autopsy Inconclusive; No Evidence of Crime, No Illegal Drugs Found

HOLLYWOOD, Fla. — Initial autopsy results on the body of Anna Nicole Smith failed to pinpoint the cause of death of the ex-Playboy Playmate and reality TV star, but no illegal drugs were found in her hotel room and there was no evidence of a crime, officials said Friday.

"We found no illegal drugs, only prescription medicines" in Smith's hotel room at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino in Hollywood, Fla., according to Seminole Police Chief Charlie Tiger. Nothing unusual was observed on hotel surveillance tapes, which are still being reviewed, and there was no evidence to suggest a crime occurred, he said.

Tiger said he was not releasing the names on the bottles of prescription pills, and that he had gotten sworn statements from all the parties involved.

Smith apparently had been sick for several days with some kind of stomach flu, said Dr. Joshua Perper, the Broward County medical examiner who performed the autopsy.

The autopsy found no pills in her stomach, but officials were awaiting the results of toxicological tests that would indicate whether she had taken drugs, Perper said.

Perper said there were three possible causes of Smith's death: medication, chemicals or a combination of natural causes and medication.

"I see something that looks a little unusual," he said. "At this time, we do not have the results of the tests which would permit us to make that determination.

Tiger said a cause of death was received by his office but "we're not going to release that at this time."

Perper said the autopsy was able to exclude any types of physical injury such as gunshot wound, asphyxiation or blunt trauma on the body of the 39-year-old, who died Thursday after being found unconscious in a hotel room.

It revealed only "subtle findings" in the heart and gastrointestinal tract, and blood in her stomach from being in shock before she died, Perper said. Minor bruises on her back were from a previous fall in the bathroom, he said.

"There were no findings that would indicate continuing drug abuse," Perper said. He called the process a "medical puzzle" and said it would take three to five weeks to conclude the investigation.

On Thursday, a private nurse found Smith unconscious in her room and called 911, officials said. A bodyguard performed CPR, Tiger said, but Smith was declared dead at a hospital.

It was unclear why Smith had a nurse with her; some media reports said the woman was with Smith all the time.

Meanwhile, a judge refused Friday to order an emergency DNA test on Smith's body. The test was requested by Larry Birkhead, Smith's ex-boyfriend who insists he is the father of Smith's 5-month-old daughter Dannielynn Hope Marshall Stern.

Smith's most recent companion, Howard K. Stern, is listed on Dannielynn's birth certificate as her father.

The judge did order Smith's body to be preserved until a Feb. 20 hearing, attorneys said.

In yet another complication in the case, Zsa Zsa Gabor's husband, Prince Frederick von Anhalt, said Friday that he had a decade-long affair with Smith and may be her daughter's father.

"If you go back from September, she wasn't with one of those guys, she was with me," von Anhalt, 59, told The Associated Press in an interview Friday.

He said he would file a lawsuit if Dannielynn is turned over to Stern or Birkhead.

Anhalt would not comment to FOX News about whether or not he's the father, but he said if the baby goes to Birkhead or Stern he will "jump in and give some information that gives some new light."

"I'm only upset that two guys fight for the fatherhood and they're not the father at all," he said.

Was It Drugs?

Shortly before Smith's autopsy was conducted Friday, her mother blamed drugs for her daughter's sudden death.

"I think she had too many drugs, just like Danny (Smith's late son)," her mother, Virgie Arthur, told ABC's "Good Morning America" on Friday. "I tried to warn her about drugs and the people that she hung around with. She didn't listen."

Smith's 20-year-old son Daniel Smith died in September from what a private medical examiner determined was a combination of methadone and two antidepressants. Daniel died on Sept. 10, just three days after Smith gave birth to Dannielynn.

Dannielynn, meanwhile, was being cared for in the Bahamas by the mother of Shane Gibson, the Bahamian immigration minister who is a close friend of Smith's, People magazine reported on its Web site, citing unidentified sources.

Smith's estranged sister Donna Hogan told FOX News Friday that she blames Stern for Smith's death and the death of her nephew, Daniel. She also doubts that Stern is the father of Dannielynn.

"Well we're not sure who the father is," Hogan said. "I don’t believe it's Stern — I don’t care if he is. He is unfit to raise that child. Both family members (Anna and Daniel) are gone — it's always Howard K. Stern there. It's always his name on the drugs or something."

Hogan added that she would like to press charges against Stern, and that Stern should have done more to stop her sister from using drugs.

"Howard K. Stern was just a friend who did everything that she told him to do. He's a moron," Hogan said. "I think he was obsessive over her, so he would do anything for her. If she wanted drugs, she could use him to get them and he would get them for her."

Smith checked into the Betty Ford Clinic in 1995 for addiction to prescription painkillers and alcohol.

Anna's Rise to Fame

Through the '90s and into the 21st century, Smith was famous for being famous, a pop-culture punchline because of her up-and-down weight, her Marilyn Monroe looks, her exaggerated curves, her little-girl voice, her ditzy-blonde persona and her over-the-top revealing outfits.

Recently, she lost a reported 69 pounds and became a spokeswoman for TrimSpa, a weight-loss supplement. In recent TV appearances, her speech was often slurred and she seemed out of it. Some critics said she seemed drugged-out.

"Undoubtedly it will be found at the end of the day that drugs featured in her death as they did in the death of poor Daniel," said Michael Scott, a former attorney for Smith in the Bahamas.

Rale said he had talked to Smith on Tuesday or Wednesday, and she had flu symptoms and a fever and was still grieving over her son. He dismissed claims her death was related to drugs as "a bunch of nonsense."

"Poor Anna Nicole," he said. "She's been the underdog. She's been besieged ... and she's been trying her best and nobody should have to endure what she's endured."

The Texas-born Smith was a topless dancer at a strip club before she made the cover of Playboy magazine in 1992. She became Playboy's playmate of the year in 1993. She was also signed to a contract with Guess jeans, appearing in TV commercials, billboards and magazine ads.

In 1994, she married 89-year-old oil tycoon J. Howard Marshall II, owner of Great Northern Oil Co. After his death the following year, she engaged in a protracted legal fight with her former stepson, E. Pierce Marshall, over whether she had a right to the estate.

A federal court in California awarded Smith $474 million. That was later overturned. But in May, the U.S. Supreme Court revived her case, ruling that she deserved another day in court.

The stepson died June 20 at age 67, but the family said the court fight would continue.

Smith starred in her own reality TV series, "The Anna Nicole Show," in 2002-04. She also appeared in movies, performing a bit part in "The Hudsucker Proxy" in 1994.

Smith had been filming a movie called "Illegal Aliens" until September, when the production was shut down because of her son Daniel's death. Smith was a producer on the film, which poked fun at her dumb blonde persona, and Daniel was an associate producer.

Smith was born Vickie Lynn Hogan on Nov. 28, 1967, in Houston, one of six children. Her parents split up when she was a toddler, and she was raised by her mother, a deputy sheriff.

She dropped out after 11th grade after she was expelled for fighting, and worked as a waitress and then a cook at Jim's Krispy Fried Chicken restaurant in Mexia, Texas.

She married 16-year-old fry cook Bill Smith in 1985, giving birth to Daniel before divorcing two years later.

2007/06/10

Green Sex Toys - Make love without shagging the planet

During the past few weeks, eco sex guides and debates - promoted by Greenpeace and green website treehugger.com - have had the ethically minded in a flap about the extent to which the fate of the planet lies not only in their hands but also in their undergarments. The undies, it's generally accepted, should be made from hemp, but arguments rage over the environmental friendliness of what might happen were such garments to be cast to the carpet.

Some say that sexual intimacy is acceptable if the lights are dimmed, others advocate burning soy-wax candles in the eco boudoir. Others insist - to the chagrin of lovers in the Arctic - that intimacy occur during daylight, or otherwise in the pitch black of night. Many approve of solar-powered sex gadgets, yet sex-toy company LoveHoney admits sales haven't exactly gone through the roof and are now offering two for the price of one, which some consider unsustainable.

Some warriors of 'super-green sex', or 'carnal carbon-neutral living', are espousing IUDs (the contraceptives with the least packaging), vasectomies, no procreation, or even single bamboo beds. Others promote Al Gore's film ('Hot!') as a mood-setter for an evening involving organic lubricants and 'vegan condoms' made with cocoa powder, yet may then pause, in the throes of passion, to consider the environmental impact of the cocoa industry. While some promote taking baths together as environmentally desirable, others feel that only brief joint showers are truly acceptable. Some warn friends and acquaintances to avoid making love in the garden 'until it is entirely pesticide-free'. Then others announce that they'd only wish their rump to be 'struck by a paddle' if made from sustainably harvested timber.

2007/06/09

Blackberry Vibe Ring Sex Toy

Similar to the best-selling Raspberry Ring, this silicone cock ring adds vibration to its list of features! Stretching up to 4 inches in diameter, the Blackberry Ring offers angled rows of nubs that can either stimulate the clitoris during penetration, or add stimulation to the testicles when masturbating. A hole in the back allows for the insertion of a mini vibe (included), increasing the fun! Use on a penis, dildo or fingers! Versatile, non-porous, and phthalate-free... this berry is a peach! Takes 3 watch batteries (included). Midnight blue silicone.

Care and Cleaning: Silicone products are nonporous and can be safely washed in the top rack of a dishwasher or sterilized by boiling for 1-2 minutes. You can also clean silicone with mild soap and water.

2007/06/08

Feeling Itchy in a sex toy party

well... I had a feeling this day would come, and sure enough.... it did today.

there has been scuttlebutt around the streets of Stepford, and most especially at the recent Bunco gatherings of someone hosting a toy party.

a sex toy party.

I just got my invitation this morning, and I have to tell you... the whole idea makes me feel itchy. ok, ok... I'm sure many (if not MOST) of you are wondering what the problem is with someone throwing one of those sex toy parties. To be completely honest... I don't find anything wrong with someone HAVING one of those parties... I just have major issues with the idea of ATTENDING one.


I mean.. let's face it.. I'm not single anymore... (not that I ever had sex before I got married, mom and dad....) and as much as I enjoy my neighbors... these ladies are NOT my girlfriends. I mean... I don't discuss my marital sex life with these women.. why in hell would I want to purchase an accessory for it in front of them???


I guess it goes back to my little barometer I have when it comes to friends. There's the kind of 'friends' that you would allow to see you without a bra, the kind that you let come bathing suit shopping with you, the kind you can get drunk in front of, the kind you talk about your husband with, and finally... the ultimate level of trust in friendship.... the kind you would go to vegas with.


so... being that only a few of them even qualify for the no-bra level, you can imagine my apprehension for browsing things I would use wearing LESS than my bra.

and of course... if I've said it before, I've said it 100 times. I have issues. my brain??? it's one of those things that just does NOT shut off. the visuals keep coming no matter WHAT I do to cover my eyes. Think that part of Fight Club when Tyler is splicing in pornographic images into kids' movies. it's as perverse as it is horrific. This is about as best I can do to describe the visuals my brain conjures when I think of knowing what toys my neighbors are buying for use with their husbands.

seriously... I've MET these women's husbands. and while there is no way I want to be thinking of the bunco girls themselves naked.... I SURE as hell don't want to picture them doing it with their husbands. then to add an element of kink??? my eyes burn just thinking about it.

so no. I do not think I will be attending the party thursday night. I'll be bleaching my skin that night.

2007/06/06

Guys and Dolls: Fall For Tons of Amazing Love Doll Tonight!

When you think of sex dolls, what comes to mind? If your first thoughts are of bachelor party gags and gifts for lonely single friends, you're not alone. However, with the use of incredible new and improved technology, love dolls are no longer the sole property of the lovelorn. Even couples can enhance their fantasy role-play by incorporating a sexy doll into their normal routine.

With a doll for every fetish and sexual preference, there's sure to be one or two that will light your fire!

It's normal to be shy about expressing your sexual fantasies to a real-life lover, and that's one reason why love dolls are an amazing invention! With a doll for every fetish, you never have to worry about being rejected or ridiculed for wanting to experiment with something a little less traditional! Would you like a partner who comes prepared to practice bondage and discipline? What about the mature Mrs. Robinson of your dreams? We even have several big, beautiful girls for the taking.

Do visions of arousing Asian women dance in your head? You don't need to move to Japan to be wooed and wowed by a geisha. Our selection of ethnic dolls includes a greek goddess, a stunning ebony seductress, and an italian princess. Don't waste your precious vacation time on an island cruise when you can "lay" a hot island babe every night in the comfort of your own bed.

If you prefer a professional woman, don't fret. Play doctor with Naomi, the nurse who is always waiting at your bedside to perk you up, or go for a roll in the hay with your very own Milk Maid. Would you rather have a different kind of maid? This sexy lady is ready to clean out your drawers! Experiment with erotic role-play in the safety and comfort of your own home.

Hotdoll: The Sex Doll for Dogs


Is your dog in heat and humping anything it can wrap its horny little legs around? Are you constantly having to pry your promiscuous pooch off the legs of guests, parents and members of your church? Protect your leg from a hump attack by getting Scruffy a Hotdoll. Yes, it's a sex doll for dogs. It's shaped like a dog and it'll allow your tension-filled pet to go to town as much as his little heart desires, humping away until he passes out in exhaustion, leaving a wispy coil of friction-singed dog-fur smoke wafting into the air.

God, I love the Internet. Hit the jump for more hot dog-on-doll action shots. Don't pretend like you don't want to see them.

2007/06/05

Digital Alarm Clock-radio Spy Hidden Color Camera

This is a powerful wireless color camera hidden in alarm clock-radio. New high power 1.2 GHz technology provides up to 1000 ft range of transmition with solid stability. Features: This surveillance system is well hidden inside a digital clock-radio with a built-in transmitter. The camera and transmitter are invisible to the human eye. The hidden video camera will view in low, normal or bright light conditions.

The camera's micro electronic sensor automatically adjust for any change of light. This covert system can be applied to almost any ambience. Only one electrical cord to power both the hidden spy camera and the clock itself.

Camera use 1.2Ghz Freq with horizontal Resolution: 382TV with longer range up to 1000ft And this LED Digital clock employ LED alarm clock with calendar, hourly chime, 12/24 hour display, data-guard for external power failure, FM scan radio. This model can be operated by battery or with power supply.

The hidden camera and transmitter are built-in to each item and the included receiver connects to any TV with video inputs or VCR for recording. The camera is very easy to operate and no installation is required The complete set includes: Digital Clock-Radio, Spy Hidden Camera 1.2 Receiver (no audio for better sharp picture),Video Cable, DC power adapter for receiver, DC power adapter for Clock-Radio, Spy Camera Manual

  • Frequency: 1.2GHz Range up to 1000 Feet !
  • horizontal Resolution: 382TV
  • The hidden video camera will view in low, normal or bright light conditions
  • Only one electrical cord to power both the hidden spy camera and the clock itself
  • The camera's micro electronic sensor automatically adjust for any change of light

2007/06/04

Doctor Says Sexsomnia (Sleep Sex) Is Real Disorder


New Scientist has cracked the sleep sex story once again, reporting on the effects sexsomnia has on intimate relationships. (If you, like me, are temporarily without bugmenot, just check the Reuters story, which is pretty close.)

It’s difficult to find much publicly available on the subject, but the next time you’re in the stacks at your local research institution (or you scam a login to one of these sites), here’s some places to start:

  • Sexsomnia: a new parasomnia? This is the originating paper in the field. From the abstract: “Sexsomnia has some distinct features that separate it from sleepwalking. The automatic arousal is more prominent, motor activities are relatively restricted and specific, and some form of dream mentation is often present.”
  • A phenomenology of problematic sexual behavior occurring in sleep. A more recent study drawn from Internet respondents. “Results suggest that sleep sex can elicit negative emotions and cognitions that may become a source of personal and relational distress. Clinician familiarity with problematic sleep sex may foster more effective communication with individuals presenting with such complaints.”
  • You can also keep an eye on “sleep sex” studies, and sign yourself up at Sleepsex.org. Stanford ran this one in 2002, and found that “…symptoms [that] included loud, disruptive moaning on one end of the scale and sexual assault on the other. Regardless of how unusual or violent the behavior, patients had no memory of the events the next morning.”

Yes, sexual assault. One trend in the sexsomnia field is use the expert testimony of researchers to intervene in charges of sexual assault made against actual or alleged sufferers for the disorder. Wikipedia currently points to three different cases of rape charges being dropped when the assailant was shown to have sexsomnia. Of the three, however, one man was found guilty on appeal, and prosecutors are seeking a similar appeal in a second case.

What with how very little research goes into things sex, and the still-significant uphill battles rape survivors face in seeking legal redress, I think it’s safe to give decent pause at how the sleep sex field is developing, as, in the words of one sexsomniac, “Is this just a stipulation or a convenience [sic] excuse with men with a sex obsession?”

2007/06/03

Panasonic ER421KC Nose and Ear Hair Trimmer, Wet/Dry, Lighted

Look and feel your best with Panasonic's impressive line of personal care devices. Groom unwanted hair from your nose and ears.

The Panasonic ER421KC Nose and Ear Trimmer comes equipped with a built-in, bright, focused light for precise and accurate grooming. You can keep your nose and ears clean and trim without worrying about navigating your nostrils and ear canals in the dark. Designed to be used in or out of the shower, this trimmer can be rinsed under a faucet for quick and easy cleaning. Wet or dry, your nose and ears will be groomed exactly how you like them.

The trimmer's stainless steel blades leave the proper amount and length of hairs to help ensure you still benefit from nature's design. Without some hair in your nose and ears, you increase your chances of inhaling irritants and contracting disease, but your grooming needs are worry free with the ER421KC. Panasonic has also designed this trimmer with a safety cone that guides hair into the blades and protects the skin from direct contact with the rotary trimming system.

To properly use your trimmer, turn it on and carefully insert the tip of the outer blade into your nostril or ear canal to trim the hairs. Do not insert the device deeper in your ears or nose than the narrow tip of the outer blade, and avoid applying pressure when using the trimmer because you could run the risk of damaging your skin. If used once a week and properly cleaned, the ER421KC blades should last approximately three years. To properly clean your trimmer, remove the outer blade frame by turning and raising it upward. Detach the inner blade from the outer blade, and wipe them off gently with a tissue to remove hairs, dust, and other debris. Be sure to that the switch is turned off before removing, mounting, or cleaning the blades.

The ER421KC is easy to clean because the whole unit can be washed in warm water. Be sure to wipe off any excess water and allow the blades to dry completely before mounting them back onto the trimmer body. Remounting the blades is a breeze -- simply place the inner blade back onto the outer blade, and then place the outer blade onto the body by pushing down gently and twisting clockwise.

What's in the Box
Panasonic ER421KC Nose and Ear Trimmer and protective cap.

Product Description
Panasonic's ER421KC Nose and Ear Hair Trimmer has a special feature that lets you see paths where none (or few) have ever dared to explore before. That's because this nose and ear hair trimmer has a built-in LED light that illuminates the trimming area to help find hairs that need to be trimmed. Cut hair precisely and carefully with the ease and reliability of the new lighted cordless hair trimmer. It rinses clean and is fully immersible in water. Stainless steel blades trim hairs safely and carefully, and the blades stay sharp over time. The trimmer fits comfortably in your hand, and is ergonomically-designed to give you excellent control and more effective grooming. Look your best because everyone is watching. 1 AA Battery can operate the trimmer for up to 90 minutes Immersible in water

Sony BCG-34HE4 Super-Quick Worldwide Battery Charger with 4 AA NiMH Batteries


Whether you're traveling abroad or making a domestic jaunt, Sony's BCG-34HE4 charger and battery combo is everything you'll need to keep your high-demand sex toys juiced up and ready for action. The compact, lightweight charger handles 4 AA and 4 AAA batteries simultaneously and just happens to come with 4 high-capacity (2500 mAh) rechargeable AA Ni-MH batteries.

The charger works with worldwide voltages: AC outlets ranging from 100 to 240 volts (50/60 Hz). For your safety and convenience, the charger offers alkaline battery detection (in case you accidentally load non-rechargeables) and automatic cut-off for excessive temperature and/or voltage.

It doesn't say so in the product description page here anywhere (and I can't even find this charger on the Sony website), so here you go: it takes about 4.5 hours to fully charge the four 2300mAh batteries that come with the charger. Which I kinda like--I like that it's not a dumb charger (timed charger w/o regard for existing charge or overcharge) like the cheaper Sony charger here (BCG-34HLD4), nor does it take inordinately long (some others I checked out take as long as 8-12 hours), but it's not a superfast 1-hour charger that super-heats up the batteries during the charge (and potentially reduce the battery service life).

The charger has the outlet plugs built-in, so there is no separate AC adapter. Be sure to keep the charger bay door open during charging to help dissipate the heat.

The batteries are Sanyo-brand ("HR" imprint on them) marketed under the Sony label.

What's in the Box
A charger, 4 AA rechargeable batteries, and a data sheet in a blister pack.

Product Description
Sony's worldwide reputation for creating unique, attractive, high-quality, advanced technology products rests on a long line of innovations embraced by people from all walks of life. With a diverse product lineup serving a variety of lifestyles and industries, Sony continuously strives to introduce new products and technologies to meet changing market needs.

Doc Johnson Pure White Pleasure Dildo Sex Toy

I have tons of sex toys and I always come back to this one! I've bought glass ones with similiar shapes and still have never found another that worked so well. The lumps and bumps on this one are in the EXACT right place - I cannot help but cum with this bad boy!

Doc Johnson's Pure White Pleasure dildo designed purely for multiple stimulation. The purity of white leaves this up to your imagination. You must be 18 to buy.
  • 7.5 inch of pure fun.
  • 7.5" of pure sensuality.
  • 7.5" of pure pleasure
  • The purity of white.

2007/06/02

Cock Ring Best Practices



  • Prep your gear. If you're using a stretchy O-ring like the ones found in the 4-ring Pack, you might want to increase its diameter by putting it over a shampoo bottle for a few hours. Masturbate or fantasize in order to perk up your penis, as cock rings are easier to put on if you're semi-erect.

  • Lube up. Particulary if you're using a rubber or seamless O-ring, put some lube on your penis and balls, so the cock ring will slide on more comfortably.

  • Location, location, location. Cock rings typically are worn around the base of the cock and the balls. You can just wear it on the shaft (and by all means experiment), but cock rings function the most effectively when secured around both the scrotum and cock.

  • Put cock rings on when you're semi-erect. If you've got a solid cock ring, first pull the loose skin of your scrotum through, then drop one testicle through, then the other, and finally push your penis through. If you're using a strip of material that fastens, like the Velcro Leather Cock Ring, just gently lift your balls and fasten the strip around the penis and the balls, so it's resting between your genitals and the rest of your body.

  • Masturbate. Once you’ve become accustomed to the sensations your cock ring creates, try masturbating. If your ring is the vibrating type, you can experiment with pointing the vibrating portion on your testicles for an extra buzz.

  • Make a statement. Get into the fantasy surrounding your cock ring. Whether you're showing off a festive adornment as part of a striptease, wearing it under your clothes to show off your package, or telling your lover you're proud to be submissive by wearing a locking cock ring, play up the erotic potential of your toy.

  • Cock rings are fun for silicone dicks, too! Strap a colorful or sexy leather ring on a dildo to dress it up.

  • Share it with a friend. Vibrating cock rings like the Petal Ring and the Orbit Ring vibe were designed to offer female partners clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Position the vibrator near the top of your cock (or the dildo if you've got a strap-on) so that during intercourse it bumps up against her clitoris. Keep your body down parallel to hers and try slow, shallow thrusts to make sure she receives consistent contact with the vibrator. Or try it with her on top, moving in more of a grinding than up-and-down motion.

  • Accessorize. Cock rings lend themselves well to other sex toy combinations. Try using a penis pump first and then applying a cock ring, or adding a butt plug to your masturbation session.

  • Get it off. In general, it's best to take off your cock ring after about twenty minutes. Pay attention to the penis; it should never turn cold or go numb (clear signs you've had the cock ring on too long). To remove a solid O-ring style cock ring, you need to be only semi-erect so the ring is loose enough to feed your dick and balls back through. (Applying ice can help take down a stubborn erection.)

Worn to look hot and ready for sex, or just to feel good, cock rings can double your pleasure and create a sexy package—think of them as form and function in one!

How to Use Cock Ring Sex Toys

Many folks equate sex toys with vibrators, and vibrators with women. But men enjoy all kinds of sex toys (including vibrators) and one of the staples of their toybox is the cock ring. A great toy for solo or partner play, the cock ring (also known as a penis ring) is a strip of material or a continuous O-ring designed to restrict the blood from flowing out of the penis, which can prolong an erection.


Why wear a cock ring? Lots of reasons! They temporarily create more sensitive, intense and hard erections, and can even help some men delay ejaculation. (Of course, everybody is different, and not all men respond to cock rings the same way. For some, the intense senstions caused by the cock ring make them come faster.)

Will cock rings make your penis bigger? Sorry guys, but not in the long run. They may enlarge it temporarily, but repeated use of cock rings won't result in any permanent changes.

Pick a Style, Any Style
There are many kinds of cock rings, but if you're new to cock rings, you'll want to choose one that's adjustable and easy to remove.



  • Cock rings that fasten. Basic leather or nylon cock rings are great for beginners because they're easy to put on and can be removed in (literally) a snap. Those with snaps, such as the 5-Snap Leather Cock Ring, can fit a bit more securely, while those with Velcro closures, such as the Velcro Leather Cock Ring, are very adjustable and especially easy to remove.

  • Continuous, O-ring-style cock rings. The more inexpensive styles like the Rubber Stretch are made of rubber and are great for first-time users. They’re not size-specific (and despite their small size, they do stretch a lot), and they're not too difficult to get on. Some, like the Black Megastretch, are adorned with small nubs which can give some clitoral stimulation if worn during intercourse. O-rings made from solid metal (like the Aluminum cock ring) don't stretch, so you need to make sure you've got the right size before you're bursting at the (nonexistent) seams!

  • Vibrating cock rings. These offer an extra buzz to the penis or testicles and are also great fun during partner sex. They're typically rings with a small vibrating attachment, like the translucent Diamond Ring vibe.

  • Cock rings with fancy features. Experienced cock ring fans can delight in more complicated leather rings that include multiple straps, testicle separators, or weights, as well as rings made of inflexible materials like aluminum. Check out the Triple Threat Chrome Rings for an example. These can be very intense, and are more difficult to remove, so they’re not for novices.