The Art of The Dogging

Dogging etiquette

Don't attract unwanted attention
Driving around aimlessly at a dogging spot desperately looking for action is a sure way to bring law enforcement down on you. And, of course, this will ruin it for every other dogger there. When you show up at a dogging spot, be discreet and patient. If you're in the right place, something will go down.

Relax
Don't be aggressive or overly persistent, or you will frighten everyone away.

Use protection
Always use condoms. A no-brainer, really, as you are potentially going to have sex with a stranger or strangers.

Be respectful
Respect the women at a dogging event. Without them, it would be a sausage fest. This means no touching the ladies without expressed consent.

Clean up after you're done
Remove all traces of sexual activity such as condom wrappers, condoms, tissues, panties... whatever. The second that regular park-goers find a used rubber in the pristine grass, the cops will start clamping down on doggers.

Keep it legal
In the U.K., dogging is not exactly illegal, as the law is a little sketchy about public nudity. In the U.S., this practice is going to be more of a challenge to do legally. Know the laws of the land when it comes to public displays of affection. Even if you like being watched, you don't want Mr. John Q. Law peeking through your window.

Know how to protect yourself

There are a few simple things you can do to protect yourself when dogging.

Store valuables
All your valuables should go in the glove box; lock them up, if possible. Your powered-up and charged cell phone should always be ready for use... just in case.

Keep the car doors locked
Do so unless you trust the person or people outside. Always have a dependable flashlight stashed somewhere in the car.

Leave the engine running
Many doggers leave the car ignition on in case an emergency warrants getting away in a hurry. I'm not suggesting that you peel out in the middle of the event or anything; it's just a safety measure to let other people know that you will leave at the first sign of trouble.

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