2007/05/18

Why Do Men Love Blow Job So Much?

Most men love oral sex performed on them for a few reasons. It of course feels really good, especially when it is done well. It makes them feel desired and of course it lets them know that you really appreciate their penis and them.

I think too often men are made to feel ridiculous for focusing so much attention on their penis whether it be size or it getting attention. I think what women forget is that we focus on things that could be perceived as being ridiculous too. Think about how much most women obsess about how big their butt looks in a certain dress or if the bra with underwire makes their breasts look good so that we can get that compliment when we walk out to go to a party. Underneath it all we all have the same need... to be appreciated.

What must men feel when you barter with them to suck their cock for the dishes to be done? I don't know about you, but it would be a terrible blow to my self esteem to have someone tell me that in order for them to be sexual with me, I would have to do the dishes for the week!
No wonder men and women often think of fellatio as something a bit dirty... we tend to make it that way don't we? Cleaning the dishes is dirty and undesirable and yet it gets compared to the equivalent of fellatio? We also often think of it as derogatory to the giver... yet in reality it is an opportunity to take control! I think when we take negative attitudes toward our sex life then the true beauty of love and sex is terribly belittled.

Even when a person chooses to be with a variety of partners while dating or through open relationships, we can really enjoy sex on a deeper level when we let ourselves BE with people. Being aware of the beauty of sensuality in our partner(s) and ourselves is what makes any sexual moment an amazing experience. Isn't that true of anything in life? How often do we drive to work not even taking a moment to notice the beautiful sun shining down through the clouds and lighting the world up with it's brilliance. How about how often we shove food down our throats without taking the time to really enjoy each morsel of what we are eating?

The same applies to sex... when we are mindful of our partner(s) and our own needs, sensations, and emotions then you will be better able to truly enjoy what life has to offer when it comes to oral sex or any kind of sexual activity!

Art of a Great Blow Job, Oral Sex


Giving head, a blow job, fellatio, call it what you like, but there are many wonderful benefits to performing this delicious sex act.

For one, it can provide the one giving it empowerment with infinite possibilities to be creative and provide amazing pleasure. Particularly when performed with enthusiasm it can not only be incredible to the receiver but to the one providing it as well.

Let's first discuss the most important ingredient to giving fantastic fellatio... ATTITUDE.

If you approach this as something that disgusts you, or even a chore then in my opinion, you shouldn't bother doing it.

No matter how many cool tips you know, you will never give really good head with out desire driving it. Sex should be fun and exciting to each partner no matter what you are doing.

Several women I know have told me that they exchange favors with their husband for fellatio. For example, one friend told me that her husband will do the dishes for a week just to get a blow job! I have to say that if that is the kinda of sex life you have... you are missing out on some serious passion.

Don't ever underestimate the power of your perceptions. If you perceive any sex act, including fellatio to be dirty, repulsive, or a chore then it will be.

If you approach it as an opportunity to be the sexual goddess or god in the bedroom where you have total (consensual) control over your partner, with the ability to make them scream out for more until they reach an earth shattering orgasm where they can't stand up for a half an hour due to the sheer mind blowing sexual experience they just had... then I'd say you are going in the best direction for attitude in giving fellatio.


My husband and I always say that desire starts in the mind and honestly I see nothing more important to a good sex life than your attitude and perception toward it. That is why I always suggest communication as it provides a way to talk about what really turns you on. It also gives you the opportunity to work through old belief systems about sex that no longer serve you and end up holding you back sexually.

You don't want to make the mistake of thinking that figuring out what the best techniques are will make you the best lover. Remembering that attitude will make up for any lack of technique is probably the best sex advice you'll ever get!

To those wanting to give incredible fellatio, let me give you a quick example of what I mean about attitude.

Negative Attitude-
Imagine your man lying on the bed. You pull his pants down as though you are trying to just get down to business. You open your mouth and take him in going up and down with no variation, no passion and secretly, you just can't wait for this to be done. You demand that he tell you when he is about to cum so you can jerk your mouth away to prevent from taking any of that nasty semen in your mouth. Then when he does orgasm, you let it go all over him and then leave him there because you have things to do.

Positive Attitude-
Imagine your man lying on the bed. You come in slowly from his ankles smiling at him while keeping eye contact. You teasingly strip the clothes off his entire body looking him over as though you can hardly contain yourself, while licking and rubbing him everywhere you touch him. You slide your body against his, then downward now so your genitals are positioned over his knee while you toy with his inner thigh and pubic area. You run your fingers through his pubic hair and over his balls slowly and you lick the tip of his penis softly while gazing into his eyes showing your desire. Holding him now in your hand you take some warming, flavored lubricant and run it up and down his head and shaft like pouring hot chocolate syrup onto a sundae you are about to devour. Licking his balls lightly and then sucking softly on them you move your hand up and down his now slickened cock and use the other hand to squeeze the base while you grind your genitals against his leg.

Then after a variety of tantalizing techniques you eagerly await his orgasm with an open mouth waiting for him to either shoot inside your mouth or if you do not care for the taste take it deep in the back of your throat so you fuck him with your mouth and let his cum slide down the back of your throat with no aftertaste or let it cum into your hands, or even better... let it moisten your lips, face and chest.

Are you seeing a difference here? Even if you decide to give a "Quickie" blow job, your attitude will allow you to be the best he's ever had. Men, just like women, want to feel desired, so to make him feel like orally pleasuring him is repulsive to you is certainly a "blow" to his ego. Show him that you desire him no matter what sexual activity you do and you will really make it fantastic.

2007/05/17

Enzai: Falsely Accused Hentai Sex Game








Genre: Yaoi / Crime / Suspsense
Platform: Windows XP/Me/98/2000
Credits: 2006 Langmaor / JAST USA

Cover Description: A story of murder and intrigue in France during the time of Napoleon. Although the Revolution brought with it new laws and justice, there is one place that never changes: the dark hole known as prison. Into that hell, a boy named Guys is sent. The crime is murder, and the sentence, life without the possibility of parole.

In prison, Guys must endure a world of violence and betrayal as he fights desperately to survive. "I just want to be free..."

Will his strength and determination be enough to help him uncover the truth of the murder, and win his freedom? Can he enlist the aid of those around him to solve the mystery, and find his salvation? Langmaor brings you the very first interactive yaoi game in English, fully translated and 100% uncensored!

First impressions last.
And Enzai is a game that definitely leaves a lasting impression. It somehow reminds me of Divi-Dead, very serious, but has an utterly beautiful interface. The title screen showcases both English and Japanese text. In all honesty, I could say that Divi-Dead comes distant second to Enzai in terms of overall look and feel. This leads me to say the next sentence with full-bodied conviction: Enzai is, hands down, the best digital novel I have ever come across. The artwork is breathtaking! The gothic feel is captivating and I lost no time getting absorbed into the stories. The colors and rendering seem professionally done. The downside for those who love realism is the fact that everyone is gorgeous, with only one or two ugly people, in the entire game.

There are many elements in Enzai that reminded me of real console RPGs. For one, you can pick your fonts. Two, the face of the person talking is displayed beside the message window. Three, there are no irritating female voices — although Guys's, Io's and Vallewida's voices sound really feminine. Four, the musical scoring is nothing short of excellent. I have never played a bishoujo game that has captivating BGMs like this, especially Treue, which predominantly features some romantic guitar plucking. Genosse, with its melodious piano inserts, is also another track worth listening to.

I was actually astounded when I realized that I had become completely engrossed in the plot. Unlike all the bishoujo games I've played, where the setting is Japan by default, Enzai is set in France. Then again, Enzai isn't a bishoujo game. Most bishoujo games' premise is that you'd be expecting to hook up with the girl of your dreams. Enzai is a yaoi game, where you are supposed to be a dude — not necessarily homosexual — expecting to hook up with the guy of your dreams. The difference in settings is just the tip of how astonishingly different b-games and yaoi games are.

You know from the very beginning that most of the scenes in Enzai happen inside a prison, so the developers got to work on a realistic setting. What better way to pick up dudes than to be in a place populated with men, right? But Guys' ordeal is no laughing matter. He is not in prison because he wants to get laid. He is in prison because he is a kid who wanted to survive the unforgiving streets of old France and he just happened to be the wrong person stuck in the wrong place at the wrong time. Like most impressionable young men his age, he had hopes and dreams of meeting a girl, getting married, and starting a family. To see all of it dashed so cruelly is exhausting. In the first path I chose, he gets beaten and raped in almost every scene. And this is just the first day alone. Of course, he does master the ropes after a while and to quote him, "I learned how to get tobacco and dirty pictures from the guards, and how to deal with guys who grope other guys."

There are a lot of interesting prisoners that I found myself exploring. There's Evan, the former journalist; Vallewida, the former soldier; Belbet, an adorable lunatic; and José, the bully. Even the sinister Inspector Guildias has his own sickeningly twisted secrets and you, playing Guys, must uncover all of them if you want to get out of hell alive. Almost everyone in that place is psychologically damaged and this is made even clearer by the fact that points-of-view may shift to the other men. The crimes, the drama, the suspense! Every route exposes an entirely different case to be solved, though Guys' own personal journey remains constant. Even the courtroom sessions — despite the questionable way in which the trials are being conducted (the judge not objecting to new evidences being introduced on the spot) — are exciting. The plot is well-written, if you can suspend your disbelief for several moments.

The most difficult part of being female and playing a game about hot bishies is making the crucial decision: which man should I pick first. As a woman playing a bishoujo game, picking a random colorful female character isn't too hard. I normally think, "Pick a girl, any girl," and it's usually the one that doesn't grate my ears or the one with the nifty hair color. As a girl surrounded by delicious anime hunks, how do you survive not wanting to chew on them? I suddenly understand that my gender plays an important factor in games like these.

The gameplay may seem pretty straightforward; you have your "Auto-skip Read Messages" mode and all the other tools needed to maximize your reading pleasure. The story branching, however, is not. The choices are pretty tricky. For instance, if you get raped by a particular guy you're eyeing, there's a huge chance that you won't get to know him better. There will also be options that might make you think you'll score, but you won't. Retracing your steps may not be enough. Sometimes you have to start over in order to check if you may have unlocked new routes, as what had happened to me when I stumbled upon a hidden character named Shion. It took me four tries before I finally achieved a good ending and I experienced a couple more bad conclusions before I got another good one. Thing is, the bishounens are just so yummy I couldn't keep still until I got all of them. As of this writing, I managed to complete all Events and Endings 1, 3, 4, 5, and 7, and missing only 3 CGs.

As for hentai scenes...the word "overabundance" comes to mind. I just get a little queasy when it comes to the ass-violation parts. I think that's one thing I will never get used to, no matter what genre a game or a hentai anime is. I must also impart a little warning: expect a chockful of blood and gore. This is a psychological thriller so there's plenty of S&M to assail your senses.

What really bugs me is that I have never encountered a bishoujo game that's as exquisitely made as this one. How can something that feels so horribly wrong (I was praying they'd mosaic penetration CGs. Yowch!) be done so magnificently right? Why can't normal heterosexual bishoujo games be created like this? It's twisted, I tell you. Twisted!

And I loved every inch of it.

2007/05/16

Introducing the first Vacuum Cleaner Sex Toy

Turn your vacuum cleaner into an orgasmic pleasure machine with Vortex Vibrations “Doing the Hoovering” is about to take on a whole new meaning thanks to an orgasmic new invention. Vortex Vibrations is an innovative new attachment that transforms a household vacuum cleaner into a source of exquisite pleasure for women. Vortex Vibrations harnesses a vacuum cleaner’s air-flow to provide a unique form of clitoral stimulation for faster, better, longer orgasms.

Designed by a woman for women, Vortex Vibrations combines patent-pending technology with ease of use for maximum satisfaction. Simply attach the Vortex Vibrations tube to a small hand-held vacuum cleaner (800 watt recommended maximum) and position the other end over the clitoris and labia. Once activated, the suction increases blood flow to the clitoris causing it to enlarge and become sensitive. Moving the slider on the tube up and down increases and decreases air-flow, causing the clitoris to vibrate and flutter in a motion similar to a saxophone reed.

There are two Vortex Vibrations units in each package, each one offering a distinctive sensual experience. The Introducer features a single arched opening for more suction and less vibration to create a longer ‘rolling orgasm’. The Seducer has two arched openings, creating more vibrations and faster, more intense orgasms. As the vibration is not applied directly, Vortex Vibrations does not cause any irritation and can be used as often as you want.

As two satisfied customers explain:

“Honestly, when using Vortex Vibrations I had an orgasm that lasted 2 minutes and 7 seconds; this was the actual orgasm, not the build up and orgasm combined. The total time was 4:44. This was my second orgasm in 10 minutes. I had 3 incredible complete orgasms in less than 10 minutes.” – Joanne

“I never knew what multiple orgasms were until I used Vortex Vibrations.” – Karen

Vacuum your way to ecstasy and domestic bliss with Vortex Vibrations – the ultimate accessory for your vacuum cleaner.

Aneros Sex Toy Stage 5 – Altered States of Euphoria


Aneros Sex Toy Stage 5 – Altered States of Euphoria. For the advanced user:


To build upon the preceding practices you must gain a greater awareness of your mind and body - and learn to integrate this awareness into practice. The most sublime orgasms are achieved when you do so without penile stimulation and without exerting external force upon the Aneros. To achieve these results, you must concentrate on using and feeling the sphincter contractions to slowly and methodically control the movement of the Aneros and other muscles of the body.


Begin by slowly increasing tension to the anal sphincter as you stretch your legs and arc your body, adding complete body muscle tension as strongly as you can. Perform these movements slowly, keeping your mind focused on the variations of sensation throughout your body.


Try to increase body tension to the point where your muscles are quivering but not cramping. Continue with the contractions of the sphincter - first slowly, then more quickly. Maintain synchronized breathing as much as possible - If the muscles begins to tire, try to hold the contraction at less than maximum (i.e. Don't tense up) for several seconds at a time. You can gauge this by attempting to stabilize the pressure that the perineum tab exerts solely by contracting the sphincter. This may take some practice.


Avoid direct stimulation of the penis. Continue to add more whole-body muscle tension until this practice brings you to the threshold of ejaculation. Just before that point, adjust or loosen your body tension to remain balanced upon that threshold, without passing over to the point of ejaculation. Immediately after you halt ejaculation, another new kind of strong orgasm will appear. The source of this orgasm is shifted from the prostate to the anus (this phenomenon will appear only when you come close to the threshold of ejaculation without touching your penis). This orgasmic peak will continue for several minutes, much different from the typical ejaculatory orgasm. In this manner, an extended, more powerful orgasm can be experienced. Many users have reportedly entered into euphoric and altered states of consciousness during this phase.


Aneros Sex Toys Series:

Sex Toy Materials 1: Silicone

  • Silicone sex toys are non-porous and can be disinfected. Even textured toys are easily cleaned.
  • To clean sex toy you can boil them for 5-10 minutes, pop them in your dishwasher, or wash with soap and water. Boiling will most thoroughly disinfect your silicone sex toys. Do not boil silicone vibrators like the Heartbreaker Sex Toy. The Rock Chick Sex Toy and other silicone sex toys with removable vibes can be boiled.
  • If you disinfect silicone sex toys between uses, you can share them with a partner; otherwise, use condoms. Non-lubricated condoms like the Colored Trustex or the Kiss of Mint are best for silicone sex toys.
  • Silicone dildos can break at the base if they are forced into too-small rings. Be sure you have the right size harness ring for your dildo. You can get rings in the plumbing section of the hardware store, or order the 4-Ring Pack selection from us.
  • Do not use silicone lubes like Eros with silicone sex toys as it can melt the silicone sex toy. Be sure to use a condom over the toy if you want to use silicone lube.

Silicone is a popular sex toy material for many good reasons: it's non-porous, hygienic, pliable, and comes in many vivid colors. It warms to the body and retains heat. It is also extremely durable. Because silicone can withstand high temperatures, you can boil silicone toys (as long as there is no vibrator unit inside) for 5-10 minutes or put them in your dishwasher to disinfect them. They also clean well with soap and water.


Silicone toys vary in their density — some are very soft (like the Mistress) while others are more rigid, but they are all pliable. The variation depends on how much silicone is poured into the mold. Silicone also carries vibration like a dream. You'll find that silicone items are often more expensive that sex toys made of other materials. Not only is the material more expensive than plastics or rubbers, but silicone toy makers are often small businesses that don't mass produce their products on an assembly line but create them in more craftslike settings. You will find the higher price worthwhile because of the longer life-span of silicone and its ability to be disinfected for use with more than one partner.


I have environmental allergies. What sex toys are safe for me to use? Silicone is hypoallergenic. We recommend silicone toys to anyone who is concerned about having a reaction to rubber and vinyl materials or scents or for people who know they do not want to use condoms on their sex toys.


2007/05/15

Aneros Sex Toy Stage 4 – Penile Stimulation


Aneros Sex Toy Stage 4 – Penile Stimulation. Now you may stimulate the penis glans if you prefer. This will bring you close to the threshold of ejaculation. When you feel ejaculation to be imminent, immediately stop penile stimu-lation to avoid ejaculation and quickly add more tension to the sphincter, muscles controlling erection, and your entire body.


Contract your anal sphincter together with the penis erection muscles as strong as you can. This practice will cause more blood to flow through your penis. You will actually feel your penis expanding and swelling. Keep this contraction as long as you can. This is very good practice to maximize prolonged expanded erection of your penis without a vacuum pump, penis ring, etc.


Note: For best results, bend the knees close to the stomach, squeeze the scrotum between the inner thighs (you can cross your thighs to squeeze more) then stretch your legs so that the penis skin and the scrotum are pulled back toward the base. It seems like the penis itself is stretched out, increasing its hardness and sensitivity. You may feel some pleasurable tautness caused by the stress added to the skin. As you approach orgasm, you will feel a contraction-like movement within the testicles.


Some people have ejaculatory orgasms without penile glans stimulation. Sometimes, just the tension applied to the penile skin will cause ejaculation. Ejaculatory orgasm can be easily achieved through stimulation of the penis glans.


You may also choose to have intercourse while using the Aneros Massager. This kind of ejaculation should be the strongest. When you reach the point of no return, you will feel your anus begin to pump rhythmically, relaxing and contracting several times before the start of ejaculation. During the ejaculation, the strong orgasmic contractions will cause the Aneros Massager to stroke the prostate and other vital sex organs with each contraction. This action will completely empty your prostate of fluid. The strength and the amount of the ejaculation will be far greater than that achieved by any other conventional sexual technique.


Aneros Sex Toys Series:
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 5 – Altered States of Euphoria
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 4 – Penile Stimulation
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 3 – Prolonging the Pleasure
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 2 - Contraction Exercise
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 1 – Relaxation and Concentration
Aneros Sex Toy Preparation
The Aneros Progasm Sex Toy - White

Ballack and Kahn - German Footballers are Dildos Sex Toy


German footballers Micheal Ballack and Oliver Kahn were today celebrating after being awarded 50.000 eauros each over claims that they resemble large dildo's.

A German sex toy company had produced World Cup vibrators named after the pair. The vibrators featured the footballers images and were a sell-out during the final.

Ballack commented, "I could understand if my name was Bollock, that would be fair game, but it's Ballack, I don't understand why they thought my face on a dildo would be a selling point."

The sex toy company concerned today apologised to both players for not consulting them before creating the popular playthings. A spokesman commented, "We did a poll on which players were most associated with Dildo's and they both came up time and time again."

The company will now switch to less controversial players for new Dildo ideas with the "Rooney" in production, described as a big, lumpy vibrator which is happy in any orifice and the "Beckham" which looks good but actually gives a crap performance.

The "Maradonna" was withdrawn after women complained that it was so useless they would rather just use their hands.

Aneros Sex Toy Stage 3 – Prolonging the Pleasure

When the Aneros Massager gets you to that pinnacle where ejaculation feels imminent, try to stay at this point by controlling the degree of your sphincter contractions. The deep feeling gradually increases and accumulates to the peak point. The muscles of your whole body are contracted and shaken by this strong orgasm without ejaculation. This orgasm comes repeatedly like ocean waves. The duration of this peak orgasm is probably longer (more than 2 minutes) and stronger than a normal ejaculatory orgasm, and this orgasm has a sharp peak rising from a continuous higher plateau stage. At this apex, most of your glands, including your salve gland and anal secretion gland, prepare for ejaculation, but your penis does not ejaculate. It is a superior and different experience.



Another remarkable thing about this orgasm is that it is physically controllable. This means you can achieve this orgasm as many times as you want by controlling the anal sphincter and regulating body tension. Also, unlike the penis ejaculatory orgasm, each of these orgasms will have a different signature. Consequently, it is possible for you to experience several different kinds of orgasms in one session.


Note: Your body is completely responsible for manipulating the mechanism of the Aneros Massager. You can in effect turn "off" the device by completely relaxing your sphincter, and turn it "on" by contracting your sphincter. In this manner, it is possible to prolong and build up the effect of the subsequent orgasm.


2007/05/13

Aneros Sex Toy Stage 2 - Contraction Exercise


Now that you are fully relaxed and building awareness of the sensations inside the anal canal, you are ready to begin the contraction exercises. Continue to breath slowly and begin to contract the sphincter muscle in time with your breathing. Inhale deeply as you contract the muscles and exhale as you relax. Repeat this exercise 20 - 30 times. Now your body is ready to achieve a new kind of orgasm.

Note: This exercise strengthens the anal sphincter and increases the blood circulation to the region. Increased circulation results in fresh supplies of oxygen and constant purging of toxins. Thus, these exercises will not only tone the lower tracts but cleanse them as well. Sexual sensitivity will also increase.

Now you can begin to touch your body wherever you feel sexually sensitive, these actions will add to your pleasure. However, avoid stimulating the penis at this time, as it may cause ejaculation.

Concentrate your mind on your prostate. Slowly contract your anal sphincter to about one fourth to half of full con-traction strength and maintain this level of contraction. Holding this level of contraction is difficult - anal muscles will quiver and may spasm causing a vibration that corresponds to the muscle’s involuntary movements. This dynamic inter-action between the voluntary and involuntary muscular contractions is important in achieving hands-free ejaculation.

Because the Aneros Massager is suspended unstably within the anal canal, the slightest muscular action and even the pulsing of blood vessels infiltrating the anal canal and surrounding the prostate is detected by the Aneros and directly transmitted to the anal canal, prostate and the perineum acupressure point. These sensations are positively relayed back to the anus, and this chain reaction accelerates to a nearly explosive point. During this session, it is possible to adjust the location of the Aneros by slightly increasing or decreasing your contraction strength. In this manner, you may position the Aneros Massager to a point most preferable to you. In conjunction with the degree of pressure applied to the perineum acupressure point, all points along the front wall of the rectum from the anus to the ampulla of vas above the prostate will reflect different types and degrees of pleasurable sensations. This area is a treasure trove of erogenous stimuli.

Gentle anal contraction is more likely to cause anal orgasms, whereas stronger contractions will lead to prostate-generated orgasms or a combination of sensations.

Note: At this time, lubricant plays an important role to keep the Aneros Massager as slippery as possible so that the massager’s movement is easily effected by the anal sphincter’s actions.
During this practice many people feel a strange sensation described in the section "Things To Expect While Using the Aneros massager" above.

Make a strong contraction of your anal sphincter. As you increase the strength of the contraction, the Aneros Massager will be drawn deeper toward the prostate as it moves in a stroking motion with increasing pressure. The perineum abutment accordingly increases the pressure on the perineum acupressure point. During this practice you can lie on your back and push your hips down against a surface if you like. This helps the Aneros add more pressure against the prostate and the perineum.


Aneros Sex Toys Series:
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 5 – Altered States of Euphoria
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 4 – Penile Stimulation
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 3 – Prolonging the Pleasure
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 2 - Contraction Exercise
Aneros Sex Toy Stage 1 – Relaxation and Concentration
Aneros Sex Toy Preparation
The Aneros Progasm Sex Toy - White